Can a relationship survive if the couple have different sex drives?

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I have been seeing my g/f for about 7 months, we get on well and have a good relationship etc. However, I have a much higher sex drive than her, we generally see each other about 3/4 times a week (do sometthing or just go around to each others house) and I like us to have sex pretty much each time I see her. She is more happy with once a week say.

Advice please.

Can couples with differing sex drives make a go of it?

Also I would like to spice up sex as she is quite shy/reserved in bed. How??
 
My husband and I have different sex dives and yes, it does cause some tension but we work through it ! It all depends on how much you want to be with them.
As for spicing up your sex life us women can be shy until we feel really comfortable with our partners before we start experimenting.
I have talked to lots of my Friends about this (female) and we have all said that it just takes time and usually find that once we reach heightened pleasure state i.e really turned on then we are more willing to do more things !
We usually have body shape issues and feel that if our partners took time out to reassure us that they love our wobbly bits we usually get over it and experiment more !
The only other suggestion I have from my husband is to get drunk as he says it's always party time when I have had a few drinks lol
Hope this helps xx
 
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