...has a full time job? My sister's husband has been cheating on her and I got an email from the slut that he cheated with. Long story short, she was telling me that he went to a lawyer and the lawyer said that he would get full custody of their kids because she is going to school and has a job. I don't think this is right and I always thought that the courts favored the mother unless there was reason to believe that she is a bad parent.