Camp friend getting a little out of hand?

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My camp friend is two years younger than me, and at camp this summer, she claimed she was gay (hey - maybe she is, no judge) and that she was in love with me. I was pretty much fine with it, I mean, I was a little uncomfortable, but I told her straight on that I was not gay and did not like her back, and that she shouldn't act on any of those feelings whilst at camp especially because I (being a Counselor and she being a camper) could get in a lot of trouble.

She lives an hour and half away from me and about twice a month, texts me saying "I'm in your town center, are you coming here tonight?" I do go to the town center a lot, because it's pretty 'happening', but I am fully sketched out by this. It takes a LOT to sketch me out. She goes an hour and half out of her way - OFTEN - in high hopes of seeing me.

She also texts me literally 24/7. I usually respond and am nice, but sometimes I simply ignore her, or tell her she needs to stop texting me because I'm out to dinner,a t school, going to bed, etc. When she texts me, she uses flirty little sayings and tries to seduce me.

I understand infatuation and I understand having a role-model. I understand that she wants to see me, but her behaviour is simply creepy! We used to be very good friends, before this summer when seh started legit stalking me, but now she's done so many weird things that I just want out. It's so uncomfortable and suffocating and shady.

What do you think? I hope I don't sound cruel - it's just too much! What should I do? Do I have the right to be weirded out?
 
I would be freaked out if it was me too. Just explain to her straight out, not face to face (she might pounce LOL), sorry. But yeah, just explain to her that you are not homosexual and you would really appreciate it if she would stop or else you would have to take other precautions, thus scarring her to loosing you as a friend all together, making her stop.

Hope I was of some help.
Boredom in school SUCKS!
 
well to be honest u shud change your number and say your moving in with one of your other family member somewhere else and if she does come to your house say it was only temporarily and that you needed a break xxxxxxxxx
 
It doesn't matter if you are being hit on by a man or a woman. The fact that you told her that you aren't interested should be enough to make it stop. This is called harassing. You should let her know that this is why you won't be talking to her anymore, and then stop responding to her calls or text.

Treat her the same way you would treat a guy who is harassing you. It's gross either way.
 
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