it's long but please read.
we've been together for six months, and it hasn't been the easiest relationship.
he's had a bad past and we've basically been based on an emotional relationship instead of both that and physical. about a month ago he confessed to checking out other girls, wanting to have sex with them. but he said he would never, and that i'm the only one he wants, that he can't help it...we both agreed it was because of the lack of a physical relationship. then today, he said if he really loved me then he wouldn't do that. but i think it's because he wants more than an emotional relationship which is all he's had from me, then he went on to say all he wanted to do was have sex with me, and he said ' i don't love you, i love your face and your body. that's it '
but if that was the truth, then how could he go on for six months if that's all he wanted from the relationship? it doesn't make sense...
and on thursday, we both made plans to go over to his house on monday, just to fool around..
we've had wonderful times together, and he has said before that i'm the only person he really trusts, and he's told me things he's never told anyone else before. just yesterday he said to me, ' i love you, never forget that. '
so how can he love me for months, then one day decide he doesn't really? i'm so depressed...i wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. what should i do? he said that if he still feels the same on monday then he's going to break up with me.
please help...i need to make him realize how he does love me, i know he does...
i love him so, so much. even last week he said to me, 'i can't imagine ever living without you now.'
i'm sorry for whining, but please help me out.
btw, he's used this ' i don't love you ' excuse as a reason to break up with me before. but then he turned around and said he does love me...
we've been together for six months, and it hasn't been the easiest relationship.
he's had a bad past and we've basically been based on an emotional relationship instead of both that and physical. about a month ago he confessed to checking out other girls, wanting to have sex with them. but he said he would never, and that i'm the only one he wants, that he can't help it...we both agreed it was because of the lack of a physical relationship. then today, he said if he really loved me then he wouldn't do that. but i think it's because he wants more than an emotional relationship which is all he's had from me, then he went on to say all he wanted to do was have sex with me, and he said ' i don't love you, i love your face and your body. that's it '
but if that was the truth, then how could he go on for six months if that's all he wanted from the relationship? it doesn't make sense...
and on thursday, we both made plans to go over to his house on monday, just to fool around..
we've had wonderful times together, and he has said before that i'm the only person he really trusts, and he's told me things he's never told anyone else before. just yesterday he said to me, ' i love you, never forget that. '
so how can he love me for months, then one day decide he doesn't really? i'm so depressed...i wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. what should i do? he said that if he still feels the same on monday then he's going to break up with me.
please help...i need to make him realize how he does love me, i know he does...
i love him so, so much. even last week he said to me, 'i can't imagine ever living without you now.'
i'm sorry for whining, but please help me out.
btw, he's used this ' i don't love you ' excuse as a reason to break up with me before. but then he turned around and said he does love me...