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ChicChicBoom!
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I met this guy about a week ago and right off the bat he asked me to be his girlfriend. We got along great as we have similar personalities.We laugh like crazy when we are together. He kept telling me how hot I was, how he wants to show me off, asking if I'm okay with the fact that he isn't 'as pretty as me' etc,etc. He doesn't seem down on himself..but he does everything to please me. We spent a long weekend together and he cooked, bought me dinner, bought me groceries,cleaned my apartment, offered to help me clean my car, etc,etc. I tell him how sweet it is, and thank him for everything he's done. The trouble is sex. We've had sex successfully exactly once. Since then it's sucked because he keeps going soft and is unable to cum. Last night after another failed attempt I decided I was fed up. He kept asking me what went wrong, did he need to work out more, is he too pale, and on and on. This guy is self proclaimed sex addict and he can't even maintain an erection with me. I told him we might be sexually incompatible. He got very upset and told me that he's nervous around me. He feels like I'm on a different (higher) level than he is and that if we walked into a store together people would be like 'how the Fu*k did he get her?'. He's like ' I wish you weren't so pretty.' He's kind of nerdy and when he described me to his online gamer friends they told him there was no way he could get a girl like me. I told him I like him as he is, treats me well..blah blah blah. Then he made excuses for his performance issues and told me all the things I could do that would help to turn him on like asking him to Fu*k me and biting his neck.. I hate it because I like him the way he is and I don't want to have to deal with his self esteem issues, as I have my own issues. I suggested we be friends instead and he got very emotional and cried saying he knew it was too good to be true ( forcing me to take back everything I said and remain with him). He told me he couldn't bear the thought of me with another guy and that he's falling in love with me.
So I ask what the heck do you think is going on? Can you really be so intimidated by someone that you can't keep it up? I really like him, even if he doesn't seem to believe it and perhaps is a bit of a basket case, but the sex is ruining things for me..
So I ask what the heck do you think is going on? Can you really be so intimidated by someone that you can't keep it up? I really like him, even if he doesn't seem to believe it and perhaps is a bit of a basket case, but the sex is ruining things for me..