My boyfriend was dealing with some roommate issues - them gossiping, being petty and having a problem with me spending time with him (even though he lives in the basement and we keep to ourselves).
He was really mad, venting and saying that he was going to stand up for us and not let them affect us or affect the time we spend together.
He talked to them today, and then today he calls and is really quiet and almost seems secretive about what was said - even though it directly involves me. And last night he'd questioned out loud whether or not they had something personal against me. Yet today he says nothing and just that they're cool?
So now they're cool. But I'm not. I feel like I was justified in feeling disrespected and unwelcome, because he can't even tell me what was said... and before we spent every single night together -- yet today when they have this secretive talk, he tells me we shouldn't hang out! COINCIDENCE? I think not.
What do I do??
He was really mad, venting and saying that he was going to stand up for us and not let them affect us or affect the time we spend together.
He talked to them today, and then today he calls and is really quiet and almost seems secretive about what was said - even though it directly involves me. And last night he'd questioned out loud whether or not they had something personal against me. Yet today he says nothing and just that they're cool?
So now they're cool. But I'm not. I feel like I was justified in feeling disrespected and unwelcome, because he can't even tell me what was said... and before we spent every single night together -- yet today when they have this secretive talk, he tells me we shouldn't hang out! COINCIDENCE? I think not.
What do I do??