Boyfriend sex problems?

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Okay so I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months. He has the idea in his mind that I am lets say "very experienced when it comes to sex" but I am a virgin. I have no idea why he thinks I am not. But we plan on having sex soon. What to do??????
 
Be honest!! Sounds simple, but it is the best way to go. You don't want your first time to be ruined because you are wondering if he is going to be able to tell that you aren't experience. Just be open with him..
 
he might feel that way because the cliche way for a virgin to act is scared and confused.. but just let him know you are a virgin and you doont know how to act but that you are confident and that doesent mean your experienced, just knowlagable .. wish you the best!
 
Tell him. As soon as you can. That way he doesn't have some sort of awkward reaction at the wrong time, and you guys can enjoy yourselves when the time comes. =]

Good luck.
 
i know this sounds kinda obvious but just talk to him and ask why he thinks that, cause its usually because either u come off that way or that he heard things from other people
 
You need to tell him your a virgin or he is going to possibly be too rough and hurt you more than it's already going to hurt. Plus he deserves to know your true sexual status.

Please, by all that's holy, where protection and tell him to go slow and make sure your truly ready for this. Once you do it, you can never take it back.
 
He doesn't know it'll be your first time? You should probably tell him that. Use protection also :p
 
be honest

tell him that your a virgin, believe me he think that is much better than being experienced!! and have more respect for you! xx
 
I mean if your first time don't worry about it........ Did you tell him that you was??? You probably told him but he just don't believe you....
 
well you're in the wrong if you didnt tell him up front that you are a virgin, so you're hiding something. You need to tell him that your a virgin. And if he likes you enough, he'll understand - but if he already has the idea in his head that you're a tiger in the sack, then he might get pissed. Prepare yourself for anything.
 
Why have sex so soon? If not marriage or an engagement then at the very least wait till the 7th month. I found that every relationship I had the breaking point into a long term relationship was 6 months. Infatuation stage usually ends around that time and you'll know if the person is really serious about the relationship. Please wait till at least the 7th month. You know it takes 9 months to have a baby, if you feel the same way in 7 months then make your decision to have sex.
 
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