This may be a little long...
We've been together a little over 3 years. After we had been dating a few months we started having sex, and it was usually once or twice a week. When we had been together almost 2 years I started to notice that he didn't want to as much, so maybe once a week to every two weeks. I thought that was pretty normal, for being together 2 years. But in the last 7 months or so we've probably only had sex like 5 times! Even when I tried to initiate it, we would just end up kissing for a minute and he would just stop.
So I've tried talking to him about it, but he just gets pissed off every time I bring it up and calls me a "sex addict" or something, and says that he just doesn't want to have sex "all the time." But I'm not asking for all the time, just maybe once every 2 weeks even, not every 2 months! He also say sex "stressed him out," but why all of a sudden?
It's not like I've gained weight or let myself go since we've been together, and I'm only 18! I look BETTER than I did when we met. And he swears it's not me, and that he's still very attracted to me. I know some people will say "he's getting it somewhere else." Well I know he is, from his computer! Everyday, so ...ugh I just don't know what to do. I don't want to have a sex-less relationship by the time I'm 20.
The reason I care about this so much is because I feel like sex is important for connecting couples on physical levels and actually for me it's more emotional.
ANY advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you if you read all that!
I'm on birth control, we don't use condoms.
No he doesn't body build, or even work out very much.
Yeah I understand that whole "sex gets old with the same person" thing. But how come it doesn't feel that way for me!? I will want to have him as much as I did when we met.
We've been together a little over 3 years. After we had been dating a few months we started having sex, and it was usually once or twice a week. When we had been together almost 2 years I started to notice that he didn't want to as much, so maybe once a week to every two weeks. I thought that was pretty normal, for being together 2 years. But in the last 7 months or so we've probably only had sex like 5 times! Even when I tried to initiate it, we would just end up kissing for a minute and he would just stop.
So I've tried talking to him about it, but he just gets pissed off every time I bring it up and calls me a "sex addict" or something, and says that he just doesn't want to have sex "all the time." But I'm not asking for all the time, just maybe once every 2 weeks even, not every 2 months! He also say sex "stressed him out," but why all of a sudden?
It's not like I've gained weight or let myself go since we've been together, and I'm only 18! I look BETTER than I did when we met. And he swears it's not me, and that he's still very attracted to me. I know some people will say "he's getting it somewhere else." Well I know he is, from his computer! Everyday, so ...ugh I just don't know what to do. I don't want to have a sex-less relationship by the time I'm 20.
The reason I care about this so much is because I feel like sex is important for connecting couples on physical levels and actually for me it's more emotional.
ANY advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you if you read all that!
I'm on birth control, we don't use condoms.
No he doesn't body build, or even work out very much.
Yeah I understand that whole "sex gets old with the same person" thing. But how come it doesn't feel that way for me!? I will want to have him as much as I did when we met.