boyfriend is pushy when it comes to sex!?

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miss cocoa

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I understand guys are guys.. BUT there is a line!

Me & my bf have been together for 3 years. We're in our 20s. I live w/ my parents. When we spend time in my room, its a rule that i have to keep my door open. My bf doesn't respect this. He always asks me to close the door & begs for sex. I've had sex with him before.. but just NOT in my room. The reason is because my room is right next to my parents' and right above my brothers. Our walls our PAPER THIN. I also have a squeaky bed so that's a no no. I compromise and do foreplay but I'm really getting tired of him asking for sex! Sometimes I just want to spend time with him in my room cuddle, watch tv.. no sex involved! I understand it IS my room.. I just feel uncomfortable. I dont want my parents hearing the bed squeak. Or walk in on us having sex. God! I wish he would respect me more.

How can I get my BF to quit being so pushy and listen & respect me?
 
Your boyfriend is a douche for that i understand, but my question to you is why you are in your mid 20s still living at home? and why as a fully grown adult would you have to keep your door to your room open? your parents can't be that naive to think you haven't had sex at your age especially since you have a boyfriend, but they just don't want it going on under their roof or what?
 
Sounds like this guy is a jerk, and only with you for the sex. I'd try talking about it with him, but sounds to me like he wouldn't listen. My advice would be to dump him and find someone who wants to be with you, not just with your body.
 
Get a taser gun and tell him that if he whips it out in your room, you're going to shoot him.
 
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