Im 22 and he is 23, We have been together for 6 years on and off and we have both experienced other people. We have a 4 yr old daughter and have lived together pretty much since I was 17. Our finances are good and neither one of us has a depression problem. We havent had sex for months and its been like this for about 2 years. We will have sex and then it will be another 3-6 months before we do it again. I dont suspect him of cheating (believe me Im not stupid I would def know). He comes home/leaves home on time (he works the night shift and gets off at 3am) and he also comes home on his breaks...I see his paychecks and it all adds up. We share a cell phone and its usually with me so there really isnt a chance of late night phone calls nad nothing has presented itself to make me suspicious. I dont understand this at all bc when we first got toghether we couldnt keep our hands off of each other and now its like Im just a roommate. He has been talking about going to the military and marriage (and no I didnt bring this up at all bc Im in no hurry to get married) and not only that his family has been dropping hints to me as well. He tells me he loves me but without the sex I feel very lonely and I resent him. He masturbates (but not in excess) but wont have anything to do with me. I have told him how I feel to the point that I start crying but nothing changes...Im thinking that I want to leave him but I just feel stuck. What should I do?
Oh and I should also add that I do EVERYTHING for him. I cook, clean, do the laundry, pretty much everything short of wiping his a** so I dont really want to hear that I should do more for him bc he doesnt have to lift a finger.
I have tried going for it when he least expects it but he always denies me...I have tried so hard before that I am sure it was borderline rape lol.
Oh and I should also add that I do EVERYTHING for him. I cook, clean, do the laundry, pretty much everything short of wiping his a** so I dont really want to hear that I should do more for him bc he doesnt have to lift a finger.
I have tried going for it when he least expects it but he always denies me...I have tried so hard before that I am sure it was borderline rape lol.