boyfriend does not have sex with me but watches porn?

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My boyfriend says he has mental problems and does not want to have sex alot of the time. We use to have sex a lot at 1st in the relationship but his meds were altered and this "drought"started happening. So we have not have sex for like almost 8 months and I Just saw that he was watching porn online! wtf! I confronted him on this issue before and he denies going on these websites..he just lies to me. Im so hurt..if he was a sexual person and he liked sex i wouldn't care if her watched porn but he is apparently not sexual so this situation leaves me feeling like Its my fault were not having sex. It makes me feel really lously. what do you think i can do..i feel like crap now....
 
Try setting up a sexy night for him. It may sound silly but it would be rude for him to refuse. Wear something novelty and fun like a penis outfit and have loads of novelty sex toys. It may seem silly but silliness is fun and fun is enjoyment and enjoyment is sex
 
firstly, do you see yourself dealing with this type of behavior from ANY man in the future. some one who lies, has these issues. i know feelings can get in the way... but think about your feelings and try to see how much it's worth it. if it is i suggest counseling to help get you both through this esp if the lying continues and the sexual connection between the two of you in continually strained.
 
He isn't that into you anymore. Trust me he is sexual person. Your better off trying to find someone else.
 
so find out ask him to watch porn with you and have s** at the same time tell him you can be his porn star
 
well you see i watch porn sometimes but not to 'get off'..it's because i want to see what it's like and i'm curious..i actually laugh more at porn..i'm not a guy though
 
Um im not quite sure but maybe its a problem with his meds. The best thing you can do for him is be there for him! And if you know his docotor you could talk to he/she about it. If you love him then just offer a lot of support and don't make too big a deal about it for right now.
 
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no. he just doesn't wanna have sex, but wants to pleasure himself by watching porn.
 
alot of meds alter a guys Sexual life and keep them from getting hard or cumming so they choose not to have sex cause it's not good to them not because of you but because of the meds in his mind sex is still all good as long as he isn't trying because he probably feels embarrassed that it's not working correctly. When watching porn he maybe be trying to in his mind try to figure out how to make it work alot of meds alter peoples sex life you need to talk with his doctor the doctor should understand good luck
 
wow well...
I would make him tell me what his problem is for a start. I highly doubt its your fault, you should just try to get the truth out of him and tell him its leaving you frustrated and stressed out.
 
Just because he watches porn doesn't mean he's ready to go into someone guns blazing...
What I don't understand is, did you not have a conversation with him about your sex life? I mean, even if he does have mental issues, by now you should have some sexual issues and those should be addressed as well. You should stick with the man you love but if he's not working to have a more sexual relationship, I don't understand how you can have a healthy one.
 
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