Boyfriend chatting to girls online. Advice please?

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Sadbh

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So I found out a few months ago that my boyfriend is chatting to girls online, they contacted him via Skype (Ive since had people do the same thing to me but I chose to ignore them). I was pretty upset when I discovered this, and when I confronted him about this he lied. When I told him I saw his contacts and his chat history he owned up to chatting to these girls out of loneliness (he’s away with work for 3months on his own) in the evening after work when theirs no one to talk to. I asked him if he was chatting to girls elsewhere, he said no, I asked to see his Gmail account and found that he’s chatting to one girl in particular, a lot. She lives on the other side of the world so I know he’s not meeting her or anything but I’m worried that because this was something he was keeping secret from me and when confronted with it he lied.
Do you think I should be worried? Would it be too much for me to demand that he stops talking to these people?

Oh the messages/chats where just about everyday stuff nothing more (well that I know about…..)
 
My boyfriend use to talk to girls on the phone and text them. As far as i know im not sure he ever meet them up. Either way in my book this is consider cheating! One thing i hate is people lying at me!!!! Liars! omg i hate it! Talk to him and ask him whats going on?! Communication is the key to a health realtionship. good luck.
...... oh by the way after i had long talks with my bf this whole him texting and talking to girls stop. put him in your place and see if he would like you chatting with guys online or even lying about something.
 
Well then ask him if you're good for him and if he says no dump him after he starts to hurt your feelings more.
 
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