My boyfriend is super awesome! We've been together for 3 years now in a long distance relationship. We tell each other everything, we do whatever it takes to talk to each other as often as we can. I am totally completely in love :} and so is he.
He is the kind of person that is really quiet and shy, but really smart and analyzes everything (that part I don't like so much -_-) he's really kind, loving, protective, caring, and all that stuff that makes up the perfect guy for me. He also hates things like drugs and cheating and cursing.
The thing is he's very very emotional and sensitive. If a guy even talks to me (again I tell him everything and so does he) he freaks out and gets really sad. Talks about how I am going to leave him and stuff... really weird but I don't know it makes me feel a little special that he cares that much.
Three years is kind of a long time to be in a long distance relationship but ours has worked. I am doing my very best to graduate so we can finally be together. And oh yeah I've seen him in real life (twice over two summers) so he's not a stalker or anything xD.
We talk together a ton. Every day texting and email and phone calling when it doesn't cost. It's all we can do really... he gets sad if I don't talk to him (and I sad if he doesn't talk to me). We are really close.
Now here's my problem (sorry for boring you xD) lately he hasn't been talking as much... he does answer my texts and instant messengers but his words are very blank. When we call (he doesn't pick up the phone a lot when I do) his voice is really bored or annoyed sounding. I ask and he says that's weird and he's not. I really worry.... Do I need to give him a break? But he will be sad if I stop talking and so will I really. I honestly don't know what to do and I'm feeling like he is losing his love for me....
Thank you for your time and sorry if I dragged on too long...
Also PLEASE don't be rude... I know people probably will but this is really really important to me!
He is the kind of person that is really quiet and shy, but really smart and analyzes everything (that part I don't like so much -_-) he's really kind, loving, protective, caring, and all that stuff that makes up the perfect guy for me. He also hates things like drugs and cheating and cursing.
The thing is he's very very emotional and sensitive. If a guy even talks to me (again I tell him everything and so does he) he freaks out and gets really sad. Talks about how I am going to leave him and stuff... really weird but I don't know it makes me feel a little special that he cares that much.
Three years is kind of a long time to be in a long distance relationship but ours has worked. I am doing my very best to graduate so we can finally be together. And oh yeah I've seen him in real life (twice over two summers) so he's not a stalker or anything xD.
We talk together a ton. Every day texting and email and phone calling when it doesn't cost. It's all we can do really... he gets sad if I don't talk to him (and I sad if he doesn't talk to me). We are really close.
Now here's my problem (sorry for boring you xD) lately he hasn't been talking as much... he does answer my texts and instant messengers but his words are very blank. When we call (he doesn't pick up the phone a lot when I do) his voice is really bored or annoyed sounding. I ask and he says that's weird and he's not. I really worry.... Do I need to give him a break? But he will be sad if I stop talking and so will I really. I honestly don't know what to do and I'm feeling like he is losing his love for me....
Thank you for your time and sorry if I dragged on too long...
Also PLEASE don't be rude... I know people probably will but this is really really important to me!