hi
my boyf and i have been ttc for 2 and a half years. we get our final test results on mon, but from the initial tests it looks like we will need IVF if we want to have children together. i'm fine with that, and want to go ahead, but the problem is that he doesn't want to discuss it at all and when i try to he is reluctant, is quite negative about the success rate, and generally doesn't see it as a priority in our lives and wants to put it off for a year or more. i do see it as a priority because i'm 33 and he's 40 so we're both getting on a bit.
has anyone else been in a similar situation? what did you do? did he change his mind or get used to the idea?
any other general advice?
thanks for reading.
my boyf and i have been ttc for 2 and a half years. we get our final test results on mon, but from the initial tests it looks like we will need IVF if we want to have children together. i'm fine with that, and want to go ahead, but the problem is that he doesn't want to discuss it at all and when i try to he is reluctant, is quite negative about the success rate, and generally doesn't see it as a priority in our lives and wants to put it off for a year or more. i do see it as a priority because i'm 33 and he's 40 so we're both getting on a bit.
has anyone else been in a similar situation? what did you do? did he change his mind or get used to the idea?
any other general advice?
thanks for reading.