nellina2009
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Ok so my boyfriend was being a real douche, and I was texting some really b!tchy things, and not only that but in the messages sent it talks about him leaving work to meet me to give me the house keys and in his work he HAS to stay in the field. Anyway the short story here is there was lots of personal stuff written about our finances, and how I was calling him a liar and all kinds of things mostly out of anger, and he meant to send his boss a file and instead sent him our entire conversation file!!! We have blackberry so its not a 1 text message, its from 11am until 3pm worth of conversations!!!
How should my boyfriend handle this? Should his boss have a right to judge him or give him trouble for anything because clearly it was a private conversation.... or should his boss have a right to say something because my boyfriend is the one who sent it. We know he must of read it, it was a fairly heated conversation, it was the kind of thing you KNOW you shouldn't read but you do anyway because it's hard not to.
He is really freaking out, he feels like his reputation is tainted now and he thinks his boss will judge him and now i feel kind of guilty for saying those things because not everything was 100% true it was a lot out of anger.
PS people..... DELETE YOUR MESSAGES SO THIS NEVER HAPPENS TO YOU!!!! ITS A HORRIBLE FEELING! :
How should my boyfriend handle this? Should his boss have a right to judge him or give him trouble for anything because clearly it was a private conversation.... or should his boss have a right to say something because my boyfriend is the one who sent it. We know he must of read it, it was a fairly heated conversation, it was the kind of thing you KNOW you shouldn't read but you do anyway because it's hard not to.
He is really freaking out, he feels like his reputation is tainted now and he thinks his boss will judge him and now i feel kind of guilty for saying those things because not everything was 100% true it was a lot out of anger.
PS people..... DELETE YOUR MESSAGES SO THIS NEVER HAPPENS TO YOU!!!! ITS A HORRIBLE FEELING! :