My 2nd child, is now 8 weeks old. My husband and I still havent had sex yet. I have my prescription of the pill but havent got it filled yet. I am absolutely dreading the whole sex thing. It makes me shiver just thinking about it. Not really sex as a whole, but the thought of my husband touching me sends shivers up my spine. Not from anything to do with him, but because I feel like damaged goods now. I feel so disgusting its awful. I dont want him to have to touch me I think it'll revolt him. My boobs are just shrinking by the day and are so soft its gross and are so flat at the top. My tummy is shrinking ever so slowly and is still that little soft pudd of skin covered in stretch marks.
I've started back at the gym 2 weeks ago so i know things will get better. BUt i cant exactly put off having sex till I'm tight and toned and thin again. Ill stilll have battle scars. and Ofcourse i dont regret having my kids they are the most precious things, I just feel like physically ruined, as far as a hot bod or beauty is conerned.
Do many other women feel the same? how did you get past it? the first time of having sex again what was it like? does it get easier?
Thanks
I've started back at the gym 2 weeks ago so i know things will get better. BUt i cant exactly put off having sex till I'm tight and toned and thin again. Ill stilll have battle scars. and Ofcourse i dont regret having my kids they are the most precious things, I just feel like physically ruined, as far as a hot bod or beauty is conerned.
Do many other women feel the same? how did you get past it? the first time of having sex again what was it like? does it get easier?
Thanks