BF and I were together for 2.5 years. I always wanted sex more. He said we had a lifetime for it... It sort of became an issue because he never seemed that turned on by me...he never had the ‘I need to take you right here’ attitude, not once...
We waited just under 2 years to have sex (he was my 1st, and I wasn't ready)
After a really bad fight he said he wanted a break from sex so we could start respecting each other on the basic level...
So one day he came over to go out. I was in my pyjamas so I changed in front of him, and when I got down to my undies and bra he started kissing me, and playing (it had been at least 4 weeks since ANY intimacy)... I asked him if he was sure he wanted to do this...and he took of the rest of my clothes..
We got into bed but my phone rang (cos I was expecting a call I had to answer). I came back, and started kissing. Phone rang again (but ignored it this time). Kissed some more, he touched me, rubbed himself against me...and then he said ‘Sorry I am rusty’... Could not get remotely turned on...
I used my mouth of him... (sorry if too much info)...and nothing...
I am 21 and he is 31. His lack of interest throughout the relationship made me question his sexuality...
If you are young, in love, early in a relationship, but fighting is that enough to make you not want sex?
I guess this was my last physical intimacy with a guy I still love...it makes me a bit sad
We waited just under 2 years to have sex (he was my 1st, and I wasn't ready)
After a really bad fight he said he wanted a break from sex so we could start respecting each other on the basic level...
So one day he came over to go out. I was in my pyjamas so I changed in front of him, and when I got down to my undies and bra he started kissing me, and playing (it had been at least 4 weeks since ANY intimacy)... I asked him if he was sure he wanted to do this...and he took of the rest of my clothes..
We got into bed but my phone rang (cos I was expecting a call I had to answer). I came back, and started kissing. Phone rang again (but ignored it this time). Kissed some more, he touched me, rubbed himself against me...and then he said ‘Sorry I am rusty’... Could not get remotely turned on...
I used my mouth of him... (sorry if too much info)...and nothing...
I am 21 and he is 31. His lack of interest throughout the relationship made me question his sexuality...
If you are young, in love, early in a relationship, but fighting is that enough to make you not want sex?
I guess this was my last physical intimacy with a guy I still love...it makes me a bit sad