their sexual desire, OK with you?
I'll reiterate...is the love shared OK, not the form of the relationship?
Having an opinion does not interfere with another's life. I'm asking for self perception.
Even though I excluded sex, it seems most are addressing it.
hench...people tend to get judgmental about others who identify with their desires, what has been called orientation. I'm trying to look at the love beyond that identification, beyond how people see themselves and others in that context
elements...I said apart from sex, yet that's what people want to keep addressing.
glow wings..almost said glow worms
Certainly people are concerned with the facade of our being when they become preoccupied with desires. Judgement with anger or sympathy would indicate more searching for true identity is needed. Thanks for your steps to embrasing life.
suzie Q.. yes..i'm talking about real love, not physical attraction. the culture puts so much attention on identifying with desires and then condemning or sympathizing with a whole person because of that , that they can't see the forest for the trees. The polarizing gets int the way.
kisser..If trees are satisfying you I can understand your indifference to people. lol...I think that is healthy that you aren't associating physicalness with love. I hadn't thought of it, but I've been learning the same lesson. Love grows as we see others as love, not as we feel we are being loved.
I'll reiterate...is the love shared OK, not the form of the relationship?
Having an opinion does not interfere with another's life. I'm asking for self perception.
Even though I excluded sex, it seems most are addressing it.
hench...people tend to get judgmental about others who identify with their desires, what has been called orientation. I'm trying to look at the love beyond that identification, beyond how people see themselves and others in that context
elements...I said apart from sex, yet that's what people want to keep addressing.
glow wings..almost said glow worms
Certainly people are concerned with the facade of our being when they become preoccupied with desires. Judgement with anger or sympathy would indicate more searching for true identity is needed. Thanks for your steps to embrasing life.
suzie Q.. yes..i'm talking about real love, not physical attraction. the culture puts so much attention on identifying with desires and then condemning or sympathizing with a whole person because of that , that they can't see the forest for the trees. The polarizing gets int the way.
kisser..If trees are satisfying you I can understand your indifference to people. lol...I think that is healthy that you aren't associating physicalness with love. I hadn't thought of it, but I've been learning the same lesson. Love grows as we see others as love, not as we feel we are being loved.