Been in a relationship for tha last 10 years, without sex for the last at least 4...

Holly G

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...years!! No idea why!? Like I said I've been with my man for the last 10 years. We hven't had sex for EVER!! We don't even barely kiss!! I truely LOVE him and I'm certain he loves me! I have no idea how it even got this far/long!! Outta the 10 years we were split twice 3 months each time, and each time he got with other people, and thats not what bothers me its the fact that it seems like when ever we were split he was able to get it on with other people, we were sexless since between the 2 break ups. Why not with me? We don't talk about this either, which is one main reason I am having such a hard time, I don't know how to ask. Like I just don't get it? And I know for a FACT that hes not cheating on me unless its with himself!! But I don't even think he does himself either! We're 31 years old, isn't this supposed to be our prime time!! I know I could use a really good lay thats for sure! I'm starting to think that its just me, I don't turn him on! Serioulsy I don't know how much longer I can do this for! Any suggestions? Are we weird or are there other couples out there with the same kind of issues?
 
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