Ballroom dancing or my Girlfriend?

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I've recently took up ballroom dancing for about 4 months. I have found an interest that I'm willing to spend time into it. However, my girlfriend is uncomfortable with it. To assure her that it's pure interest, I've ask her to join me in the classes, even partially sponsoring her classes.

We also have wedding plans and intending to get a flat. She have laid these conditions if i want to marry her.

1. No Competitions
2. No advance classes, just beginner classes. Cuz advance classes involves very intimate steps. Even if it's dancing with her, she's not comfortable.

If i dun comply, we'll delay our marriage plans.

What do u all think?
 
I suppose you are European since you called an apartment a flat.

But here in the states only girly-men ball room dance. She is probably just looking out for your manhood. Real men DON'T ballroom dance. Sure they do it on "Dancing with the stars", but most actors are gay anyways.
 
well really its ur decision between her and dancing. if she doesn't support you then, well if i were u i would tell her what i think so u gotta tell her what u wanna do if u really love ballroom dancing then go for it but if u can't just let her go then stay with her and give up ballroom dancing its ur decision.
 
Well she laid it out in pretty clear terms. You decide. If it's a red flag to you that she won't support yout interest and she is on a different level of comfort with physical touch then you are then delaying your wedding may be not such a bad idea after all. It would certainly be a red flag to me. But be careful - you are asking dancers. These people are passionate about what they do.
 
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