Christina B
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My daughter was born in joplin, missouri. And that is where her father is in jail. He was served 3 years..and maybe even get more years with another case he has. I'm living in Arizona with my daughter.
I just filed for child support through DES and they explained they will locate him and then get in contact with me. I just recently sent the chil support agency his current jail address. So surely they will know where he is now.
My only question is.. Will I get child support? Will they make him work inside the jail? Or will the government pay me monthly and then make him pay it back once he gets out?
My dad never paid child support for me, and eventually the goverment started taking it directly out of his paycheck when he had a job.
Does anyone know what will happen once the child support agency finds him in jail.. will the government help me or will they just be like "well hes in jail and theres nothing we can do ,sorry" ??
Thanks
Well.. Thanks everyone for being "nice" about it. I just wanna defend myself.
1) I do work, full time, I worked my ass off to buy myself a car recently and get my own place. but i still feel as a father he should do his part.
2) its not like i got pregnant with some guy... we were married and i left him because he became abusive later on in the marriage..i was sent to the ER from his last attack and after i left he soon after went to jail.
3) i dont rely on the government but if the government would be willing to help me out with finances and then make him do back pay later on, I would have no guilt in that. i'm doing my part and doing the best that i can.
i wanted answers regarding assistance not my moral decisions. thanks for all of you judging me like im a young girl would got knocked up and isnt working.
cause that is far far far from the truth.
I just filed for child support through DES and they explained they will locate him and then get in contact with me. I just recently sent the chil support agency his current jail address. So surely they will know where he is now.
My only question is.. Will I get child support? Will they make him work inside the jail? Or will the government pay me monthly and then make him pay it back once he gets out?
My dad never paid child support for me, and eventually the goverment started taking it directly out of his paycheck when he had a job.
Does anyone know what will happen once the child support agency finds him in jail.. will the government help me or will they just be like "well hes in jail and theres nothing we can do ,sorry" ??
Thanks
Well.. Thanks everyone for being "nice" about it. I just wanna defend myself.
1) I do work, full time, I worked my ass off to buy myself a car recently and get my own place. but i still feel as a father he should do his part.
2) its not like i got pregnant with some guy... we were married and i left him because he became abusive later on in the marriage..i was sent to the ER from his last attack and after i left he soon after went to jail.
3) i dont rely on the government but if the government would be willing to help me out with finances and then make him do back pay later on, I would have no guilt in that. i'm doing my part and doing the best that i can.
i wanted answers regarding assistance not my moral decisions. thanks for all of you judging me like im a young girl would got knocked up and isnt working.
cause that is far far far from the truth.