Baby momma drama a Lil advice?

[Juan M]

I'm a new father of a beautiful baby girl. However me and her mother have many issues. I try to do my best as a dad but she always makes me feel as though I'm not doing a good job or not doing enough. I blame her family for this they are all single women and have this hate towards men that I do not understand. I think I'm an awesome father I have never missed any appointments since before she was born. I watch her about 6-8 hours a day while her mother works in late evening. I take her for her walks we fall asleep together play and just have a great time. I put child support on myself which for some reason her mom says was wrong of me to do. Her reason was that I shouldnt have to have government telling me that I gotta pay for my daughter expenses, I should be doing this on my own. Obviously we not together and her mom puts crap in her head of what I should be expected to do for her. Ex. fixing her air in her car. Her reason is bc our daughter rides in her car and gets hot so I need to fix it for her. This girl seriously has some issues. And if she pissed she won't let me see my daughter. I avoid her as much as possible so when this happens I don't speak to her to avoid arguements then when I do that she will get mad saying that I'm not trying to be in my daughter's lifes childs upport still has not gone through so I can't demand her to let me see her yet. It's a double edged sword. I'm trying to have some kinda decent relationship with her for our daughter's sake but it damn near impossible. What kinda girl (I say girl bc a women wouldn't act like this) acts like this. I know a lot of women who want there fathers kids in their lives yet most guys dont do that. Here I am doing what I think is right and I still get crap as if I'm an absentee father need some advice on how to deal with this baby momma drama.