baby 5 months old constantly arguing with hubby?

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cinderella

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we just bicker constantly, i obviously dont think he does anything as well as i do. but he is lazy, im knackered. i breastfeed therefore doesnt get much of a look in, did anyone else feel or have these probs??

no smug answers pls x
Suppose i dont let him, i want everything done my way just havent got any feeling for him and i feel bad
 
me and my husband fought a good bit for a month or so. But our son started to sleep thru the night so that helped alot. If you dont think he does things as well as you please dont say that to him. I just say "Tyler likes it if you do it this way" or "If you continue to feed him without breaks (aka lookign at the TV instead of feeding) he will eta a lot better for you" I dont make it seem like he is incapable or doing it wrong i just tell him what I know our son likes because im at home with him every day. Also both make an agreement not to yell and fight to rather talk. My husband plays a lot of games and it drive sme nuts. I simply told him this and eventually slowly he started to help even if its as simple as picking up toys or doing a feeding. If you feed from a bottle at times you can pump and let your husband have a go. I have seen some moms use the nuk nipples that are suppose to feel the same as your breast and let the dad feed their baby and just hold him in a similiar position (it looks funny too so you can get a giggle in =P)
 
try maybe spending a few days apart and see what happeneds after that maybe it would be cool to have some me time if not have a serious think about if your relationship is working are not
 
Get some help. Call around and find a minister that will do marriage counseling for free. And if he won't go, go by yourself. It's very scary to have marriage trouble and it makes it hard for you to take care of your baby.
 
its called post natal depression, it will get better, been there got the medal, and for me it was 40 years ago, we are still married, the kids are doing well and so are the grand children, its a hormone thing, honest,
 
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