Sharon Buell
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Want to know from a mans perspective what this means?
My b/f and I have been together 5+ years. I have noticed within the last two years (could have been doing it earlier don't know and I mostly see his texts) that he talks absolutely horribly about me to his best friend! Like for example, just today I saw that his friend was asking him what he was up to, his response was that he'd been looking at houses. His friend I should mention hates me and his response was oh getting married to? Sorry just had to be synical. My b/f's response was f*^* NO! I'd kill myself first. Then my b/f said: she has no idea I'm even looking. His friends response: don't put her on the title! My b/f's response to that was: God no!!
I know some of you are going to say, why are you snooping through his texts. I never used to! And only recently started to because about 2 months ago he cheated on me.
I'd like to know - honestly - from other men what they think? Am I just a toy to him? I hive him everything! A place to live, helped him buy a truck, buy him nice things and give him everything he wants sexually (including 3somes) so he'll be happy. But I can't help but think I'm just nothing to him?
Any and all advice would be much appreciated. Thanks.
My b/f and I have been together 5+ years. I have noticed within the last two years (could have been doing it earlier don't know and I mostly see his texts) that he talks absolutely horribly about me to his best friend! Like for example, just today I saw that his friend was asking him what he was up to, his response was that he'd been looking at houses. His friend I should mention hates me and his response was oh getting married to? Sorry just had to be synical. My b/f's response was f*^* NO! I'd kill myself first. Then my b/f said: she has no idea I'm even looking. His friends response: don't put her on the title! My b/f's response to that was: God no!!
I know some of you are going to say, why are you snooping through his texts. I never used to! And only recently started to because about 2 months ago he cheated on me.
I'd like to know - honestly - from other men what they think? Am I just a toy to him? I hive him everything! A place to live, helped him buy a truck, buy him nice things and give him everything he wants sexually (including 3somes) so he'll be happy. But I can't help but think I'm just nothing to him?
Any and all advice would be much appreciated. Thanks.