Rock Paper Scissors
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Perfectly normal and can aso be detrimental to your relationship if it's not addressed properly. I completely lost my drive and couldn't get it back at all. Part of it are your hormones, another part is a subconscious fear of becoming pregnant again and another part is being "touched out" That's a real term for moms that deal with their baby all day. Being touched becomes such a frequent thing that you kind of lose that sensitivity and prefer not to be touched at the end of the day. I think it's extremely important that you two seek counseling. Go to your phone book and look up marriage counseling or sexual therapist. It might cost you some, but it is well worth it to save your relationship and you will lose much more if it's not handled. Your husband will continue to feel rejected and hurt. May wind up cheating, leaving who knows, The point it you don't want to wait to find out. Good Luck. Oh by the way, this situation ruined my relationship with my daughter's father. We split when we were younger. If I had known what I know now, things would probably be different? Live and learn, hope someone can learn from your mistakes!