AWFUL SITUATION - what to do!?

Sara

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please help me out. it's well written so it won't take lot of time to read. I need some thoughts on this.

There's this guy I had a thing with while studying abroad. Thing is it all got pretty complicted in the end and upon leaving he acted pretty cold towards me.

We had a really good feeling between us, he was the sweetest guy and I could really tell from his eyes when he smiled at me that he really liked me. He'd tell me I was beautiful, he'd compliment me on skills and new shoes and what not. He always gave me attention and seemed really interested in knowing more about me. When we danced and fooled around he'd grab my hands and pull me against him close, close, close, looking me in the eyes just holding me tight tight tight... is it wrong of me to think he genuinely liked me?

Then he left and we never really talked about the time we spent together and what went wrong in the end... I sent him several msg:s on fb but he doesn't reply at all... I miss him loads, loads, loads, why can he just not have mercy on me and tell me what went wrong? Was it all just a game to him? How can I make him realise I never meant to hurt him and that I really want him in my life?

It's been a long time now... soon 3 months. but I don't think he's totally forgot about me, I've sent him messages he must have seen, what makes him not respond? Why doesn't he just tell me Im a pain in the ass or remove me from fb?

Please help.

I think he probably liked me but doesn't want to get hurt by getting involved with a girl living 3 hours flight away from him... so instead he ignores me and tries to forget about me? Or was he just after the single thing I didn't give him - sex?

Please help out.
 
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