anything under the sun...? We can't claim to have control over anything by 100%. It starts from our birth itself. We did not have control over our own birth and everything related to us. Though a husband and wife engage in sex to have a kid, they have no idea what kind of child they would be getting. Like a factory can make products exactly as the makers want, we can not have a child exactly as we want. We can only do our part and the rest is dependent on...? Am I right?