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Jaylyann
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My boyfriend got out of the Army in January, and we've always talked about spending the rest of our lives together. He loved the Army, I know that, and I support him 110% with whatever he does. Tonight he told me he's going Monday morning to talk to a Recruiter about getting back in the Army, but this time he wants us to get married, because he doesn't want to do it without me being there with him and knowing I'm his wife (well he said it a lot sweeter than that). Of course that's what I want as well! I love him more than anything and I plan on spending the rest of my life with him whether it starts now or later... the only thing is I've always had a vision of a beautiful wedding. He said we can get married at the courthouse, then next summer during his 2 weeks of leave we can have the actual wedding, but I'm afraid its not going to feel the same. Can you have an actual wedding ceremony if you're already married? I don't want to just renew my vows, I want the whole thing. And also..don't think I'm stupid for asking, but Could me and him get married at the courthouse and just not tell anyone, just pretend like I'm moving where he's being stationed, so we can have an actual wedding and everyone think its the real thing so it feels like the real thing? I know that sounds bad, but I love him more than anything..I'm just afraid i won't be happy if I get married before a wedding.
Its not just the idea of having an actual wedding, its wanting to be walked down the aisle by my father and stuff like that. I'm afraid no one will even want to come since we'll already be married..
Its not just the idea of having an actual wedding, its wanting to be walked down the aisle by my father and stuff like that. I'm afraid no one will even want to come since we'll already be married..