Julia Lecours
New member
but will not sponsor me? Here is my dilemma. My husband and I were married in 2009 and then a few weeks later he was deployed to Afghanistan. (While we were dating he was stationed in Germany, I was in Ohio. We found ways to see each other) He was deployed June 2009-2010 I remained in Ohio since I had school to finish. When he returned from his deployment, he had plans to reclass into another MOS since his time in Germany was up Oct 2010. He had orders for AIT to start in Feb, we would have been stationed at Bliss. Unfortunately, he sustained an injury to his wrist that was never properly taken care of while he was down range. During a post-deployment Dr appt, it was found he needed a bone graft and the healing time would take 6-9 months. His orders were broken, and he remains in Germany sort of 'in limbo' even though his time is up and he should not be there anymore. He lives in the barracks, I am still in the states wishing more than anything there was a way we could finally be together. Almost married 2 years and I have not lived with my husband.
They will not allow him to transfer to medical attention in the states, want to keep him there but will not allow me to be command sponsored since he does not have any new orders. New orders will NOT be issued until he is FULLY healed, and they will not extend his time there unless he's healed. Thus I cannot be command sponsored to send overseas since he has no exit date/orders, all depends on healing.
Army/Military friends, Have you ever heard of anything like this? Is there some sort of loophole or way we could live together? I'm expecting a baby in March and find this entire situation ridiculous. Is there not some way I could live with him in Germany while he heals (no living on german economy is not an option for us, too expensive) or a way for orders to be written for me to be with him until he's better?
I just have no idea what to do anymore. Thank you!
They will not allow him to transfer to medical attention in the states, want to keep him there but will not allow me to be command sponsored since he does not have any new orders. New orders will NOT be issued until he is FULLY healed, and they will not extend his time there unless he's healed. Thus I cannot be command sponsored to send overseas since he has no exit date/orders, all depends on healing.
Army/Military friends, Have you ever heard of anything like this? Is there some sort of loophole or way we could live together? I'm expecting a baby in March and find this entire situation ridiculous. Is there not some way I could live with him in Germany while he heals (no living on german economy is not an option for us, too expensive) or a way for orders to be written for me to be with him until he's better?
I just have no idea what to do anymore. Thank you!