Hey all,
I'm not sure if this is a question, or if I'm just upset and rambling. I guess I just want want your opinions.
Me and my boyfriend have been dating and living together for quite some time now. It's as if nothing we/ I do Is sacred. He runs straight to his buddy pretty much telling him what colour my poop is. I've been getting irritated lately as every intimate discussion or arguement, he goes running his mouth when I feel like things such as those are meant to be personal.
Today, Something meant to be silly was really blown out of proportion. I asked him to please stop recording me and to delete it as I had been caught off off gaurd and was super embarrassed by it. Instead of respecting my feeling he sent the video out. I was obviously super pissed off, and let him know. That turned into him getting in my face telling me to grow up.
He then cancilled our plans, and refused to speak to me for 3 hours after telling me he was "done" with me and we were broken up. So I gave him time to chill out ( even though I was the one who was hurt ) and then later asked him for an apolology for not respecting me by sending out that stupid video. Instead of being mature and realizing I was embarrassed out it he got in my face and drug me to the bedroom where he continued to scream in my face.
We both said said alot of nasty things to one an other and I slapped him on the arm. He stormed for the door and I went after him asking him to just calm down and that this entire thing was rediculous. He then wrapped his arms around my neck, while he kept walking and then slapped me in the face quite hard.
He's a great guy, and I know he's under alot of stress at work but I don't know if this is normal or ok, or if this is just something I need to laugh about and forgive. I've already got the becommings of bruising on my face. and I guess I just want to know if this is normal in a relationship. Do I let this slide? If its like this now, will It get worse?
I'm not sure if this is a question, or if I'm just upset and rambling. I guess I just want want your opinions.
Me and my boyfriend have been dating and living together for quite some time now. It's as if nothing we/ I do Is sacred. He runs straight to his buddy pretty much telling him what colour my poop is. I've been getting irritated lately as every intimate discussion or arguement, he goes running his mouth when I feel like things such as those are meant to be personal.
Today, Something meant to be silly was really blown out of proportion. I asked him to please stop recording me and to delete it as I had been caught off off gaurd and was super embarrassed by it. Instead of respecting my feeling he sent the video out. I was obviously super pissed off, and let him know. That turned into him getting in my face telling me to grow up.
He then cancilled our plans, and refused to speak to me for 3 hours after telling me he was "done" with me and we were broken up. So I gave him time to chill out ( even though I was the one who was hurt ) and then later asked him for an apolology for not respecting me by sending out that stupid video. Instead of being mature and realizing I was embarrassed out it he got in my face and drug me to the bedroom where he continued to scream in my face.
We both said said alot of nasty things to one an other and I slapped him on the arm. He stormed for the door and I went after him asking him to just calm down and that this entire thing was rediculous. He then wrapped his arms around my neck, while he kept walking and then slapped me in the face quite hard.
He's a great guy, and I know he's under alot of stress at work but I don't know if this is normal or ok, or if this is just something I need to laugh about and forgive. I've already got the becommings of bruising on my face. and I guess I just want to know if this is normal in a relationship. Do I let this slide? If its like this now, will It get worse?