...see below.? Are you a clairvoyant, medium or psychic? Serious answers only please. Please see below.?
I have asked the below questions before. However I have had conflicting answers especially regarding question1...I have had a "yes", a "no" and a "maybe". Please read below and I will add a final comment at the end. Many thanks:-
I am a happily married 45 year old man with a 4 year old son. I have been with my wife for 12 years and have been set to grow old together for as long as I can remember. Recently my employer employed a new Temp who will be with us for about 3 months.
I feel terrible. I can't stop thinking about her. Nothing has happened between us and as far as I am concerned nothing will. I am married with a son and the Temp is 18 years younger than me. Therefore even if I was single she would be too young for me. When we shook hands on her first day (as everyone did) I just felt this spark...I can't imagine she felt it too - although she does smile at me a lot and talks to me more than any of our colleagues.
What I need to know is:
1. Does she feel anything for me?
2. Has she or anyone else noticed anything strange in my behaviour?. In other words does she or anyone else suspect how I feel?
3. How do I make these "wrong" feelings go away for good. The feelings are bringing me no happiness, all they bring me are torture, torment and guilt. Please can you give me any advice?
I can't help the way I feel and I just want things back as they were. I am especially worried about question 2 as I want no awkwardness for anyone.
I don't want to lose my wife...I just want these other feelings to go away.
Can you help?
(I have made an appointment with my Local Doctor as I am beginning to suffer with depression. I feel as if I am not in control. Please be honest with me especially regarding question 1).
Final comment: I don't want this matter to develop...I need guidance regarding question 1 because I need to know what I am up against. Please be honest even if you think I will not want to hear the answer.
I have asked the below questions before. However I have had conflicting answers especially regarding question1...I have had a "yes", a "no" and a "maybe". Please read below and I will add a final comment at the end. Many thanks:-
I am a happily married 45 year old man with a 4 year old son. I have been with my wife for 12 years and have been set to grow old together for as long as I can remember. Recently my employer employed a new Temp who will be with us for about 3 months.
I feel terrible. I can't stop thinking about her. Nothing has happened between us and as far as I am concerned nothing will. I am married with a son and the Temp is 18 years younger than me. Therefore even if I was single she would be too young for me. When we shook hands on her first day (as everyone did) I just felt this spark...I can't imagine she felt it too - although she does smile at me a lot and talks to me more than any of our colleagues.
What I need to know is:
1. Does she feel anything for me?
2. Has she or anyone else noticed anything strange in my behaviour?. In other words does she or anyone else suspect how I feel?
3. How do I make these "wrong" feelings go away for good. The feelings are bringing me no happiness, all they bring me are torture, torment and guilt. Please can you give me any advice?
I can't help the way I feel and I just want things back as they were. I am especially worried about question 2 as I want no awkwardness for anyone.
I don't want to lose my wife...I just want these other feelings to go away.
Can you help?
(I have made an appointment with my Local Doctor as I am beginning to suffer with depression. I feel as if I am not in control. Please be honest with me especially regarding question 1).
Final comment: I don't want this matter to develop...I need guidance regarding question 1 because I need to know what I am up against. Please be honest even if you think I will not want to hear the answer.