I have a feeling that some people particularly women who are taken already can sense that I have low self-esteem and that im single. I don't suffer from self-esteem but it may seem like it. But they tend to be nice to me and say things like youre a handsome young man, or get called as a hot from girl cousin. So I don't know if it is a true compliment from others or they just saying it to make feel better about myself. Maybe I do suffer from low self-esteem. let me know.