Are the employees at my gym acting inppropriately (long)?

Jaylynn

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They all watch me (at different times of course). I'm usually on the stairmaster, high above everyone else, and see one just standing there, facing me, watching me. I pretend I don't notice. Then she does it. I pretend I don't notice. The other day, one of them got up onto the stairmaster next to mine, I had a minute left to go and one of the others was far off on the other side of the room, standing on his tiptoes looking over at us...I got off after my minute was up and the guy stopped his and got down after I'd walked off. There are three guys who usually just stand and watch, even when they're supposed to be working with people.The guy who got onto the stairmaster had been staring at me out of the corner of his eye a lot previously in the gym (which made me paranoid). A few different times, my trainer will be standing with one of these guys, talking and they'll glance over at me and/or watch me as they talk, clearly discussing me.

Yesterday, another of her coworkers, who works the front desk turned and stood giving me this seductive eye...it was incredibly obvious, she did not look away (and I kept looking away and back to see that she was still doing it). My trainer just walked by her and when she turned to ask me something, her face was lit up. She then walked up incredibly close to me to explain something on a paper, and it was definitely within my space bubble. I felt like I was being played around with.

And a couple of the trainers walk by me, looking at me as they draw closer, then turn their heads away as though they know something about me...One of these had been watching my trainer(the woman I'm talking about) as she stared at me in the gym one day(when she was supposed to be working with her client). The next time I had a session, my trainer was glaring at her and smacking her gum around her mouth as I worked out. The trainer(female) she'd been glaring at had, one day previously, stood smiling at me from a ways away and also did not look away when I noticed. I looked around and she still stood there doing it for a bit until I stopped looking over there.

I do think a couple of the guy trainers were into me when I first started and believe my female trainer was as well (she always stared/watched me in the gym and would look away when I noticed) The first session, the two of us passed one of the guy trainers...he smiled knowingly at her and in the mirror I saw her smile and slightly shake her head as she readied for the next exercise. I feel like she is interested in me sometimes.

One guy watched me in the background the first day, when I was paying, with sweet eyes. Another seemed eager to shake my hand. jumped in to shake it and held it, shaking it for a bit. My trainer, this first day, had been in talking with the manager and staring at me with a huge smile, and clearly, they were talking about me. She didn't look away when I noticed except to glance at him from time to time as she spoke of me(he was also looking up at me as she spoke and back down at his paperwork)
 
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