Dr Loveless
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Now my boyfriend is a pretty young guy 26 and im 24 pregnant with our first kid (A baby boy due). My boyfriend also does martial arts and absolutely loves it. He is always out doing either boxing, jujitsu, and other forms of martial arts i cant even spell!
Hes just awesome and he even helps the teacher train the new comers to the class. He is really superb i've even recently been to see him while he practices at out local academy.
However the problem is, is it normal for a martial artist to be so violent? Now he's done nothing towards me or my family or friends, hes good as gold and so so sweet and helps everyone out.
Its other people. The problem is anytime a little argument happens he just resorts to extreme violence with people. In one case he "alleged" to have broken a guys jaw in a chip shop after being accused of que jumping.
Another alleged incident in a pool hall he is alleged to have beaten someone with a snooker cue.
Hes been arrested he tells me more then 7 times for violence, common assault, abh and GBH. All of them thankful not resulting in further action.
Hes come home drinking at night and in the morning he comes downstairs to the kitchen in his shorts, tanktop and its like hes been 12 rounds with Mike Tyson, his knuckles bruised black and blue and often his hands and fingers smashed!
I only think of what hes done to the other guy. Presently hes on a GBH investigation by the police. But he keeps shrugging it of saying "Ah they'll drop the case like before".
Now he makes me feel so so safe, i live in dangerous council estate with junkies everywhere. But surely such extreme macho violence is wrong isnt it? Is this normal for you martial artist guys to use violence so freely?
My boyfriend can handle himself and may apply for a doormans licence. hes like 6 ft tall massive stocky muscley blonde blue eyed guy.
Hes always drinking, i guess it comes with his job he works hard bless him as a labourer, plasterer, builder etc... and works hard to support us in our council house.
But surely what could i do to convince him to stop violence and use words? The other time he just punched the hell out of this guy in our area because my boyfriend said he was "Leering" at me.
What could i do? Also would my son become violence like him too?
Hes just awesome and he even helps the teacher train the new comers to the class. He is really superb i've even recently been to see him while he practices at out local academy.
However the problem is, is it normal for a martial artist to be so violent? Now he's done nothing towards me or my family or friends, hes good as gold and so so sweet and helps everyone out.
Its other people. The problem is anytime a little argument happens he just resorts to extreme violence with people. In one case he "alleged" to have broken a guys jaw in a chip shop after being accused of que jumping.
Another alleged incident in a pool hall he is alleged to have beaten someone with a snooker cue.
Hes been arrested he tells me more then 7 times for violence, common assault, abh and GBH. All of them thankful not resulting in further action.
Hes come home drinking at night and in the morning he comes downstairs to the kitchen in his shorts, tanktop and its like hes been 12 rounds with Mike Tyson, his knuckles bruised black and blue and often his hands and fingers smashed!
I only think of what hes done to the other guy. Presently hes on a GBH investigation by the police. But he keeps shrugging it of saying "Ah they'll drop the case like before".
Now he makes me feel so so safe, i live in dangerous council estate with junkies everywhere. But surely such extreme macho violence is wrong isnt it? Is this normal for you martial artist guys to use violence so freely?
My boyfriend can handle himself and may apply for a doormans licence. hes like 6 ft tall massive stocky muscley blonde blue eyed guy.
Hes always drinking, i guess it comes with his job he works hard bless him as a labourer, plasterer, builder etc... and works hard to support us in our council house.
But surely what could i do to convince him to stop violence and use words? The other time he just punched the hell out of this guy in our area because my boyfriend said he was "Leering" at me.
What could i do? Also would my son become violence like him too?