Are Making Love and Sex the same thing?

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The world we live in is filled with sick things like having sex with someone you don't even know and one night stands and lust. There's no emotion behind it.

Making love is the complete opposite, right? You make love because you love each other and because you want to please the other person. For no other reason but love.

I want to know everyone's thoughts on this.
"Are making love and sex two different things? If so, how are they different?"
 
when someone says 'making love' i think of the hippies era when everyone was all like ' i love you mannn'
now, sex is sex. whatever you wana call it. thats what it is.
you dont need emotions. you dont need to know them. or call them the next day. its the society we live in.
 
I think this can be a no or yes answer that can be argued from both sides. I'll argue the no side. I've had very passionate one night stands, I'm a passionate person and have come across other passionate people with whom I didn't even know and had amazing sex. If you were looking through my window you would think we were very much in love. In the moment we both felt an electrifying connection but we were far from your traditional definition of "in love".
Also I'm sure there are many many couples who are "in love" who can't get it right and have terrible sex. I believe when people think of "making love" and "having sex" they are measuring the level of passion not the level of love.
 
making love is enjoyable and more for play and More interment sex is just get it done that's no fun there isn't for play or Any romance we like romance and take it slow and then the for play
 
Yes. One is an act with no emotion (like masturbating, but with a person). The other is like masturbating with another person, but with emotion.
 
Yes, they can be.
And I disagree that lust and one night stands are "sick" things. Sex is fun. Everyone should do it, and do it often.
I have sex because I want to please that person and be pleased in return. That's true whether it's "making love" with a long term partner or sport fu*k!ng a total stranger.
 
In today's standards, "making love" and "sex" are two different things. This is why some guys who don't want commitment, leave a girl who calls it "making love", because when they hear that verbiage, they automatically think the girl wants more out of the relationship. If you're old-fashioned (like a lot of people still are), then sex and making love are the same thing, and it's always done for love and romance. There are also some people who are completely offended when their partner refers to it as sex and not making love. There are so many variations to things these days, that sometimes you just feel like throwing in the towel and giving up.
 
You are correct...although there are times even in a marriage where you just want hot sex.
I tend to think of making love as slow, tender and leisurely, but that's not the ONLY kind couples have.
 
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