Aquarius guy is hard to decipher !?!?

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I like this aquarius guy who said he is attracted to me physically and mentally. We both decided to stay friends and see what happens from there. He has admitted he doesn't want anything serious and he knows i do. I cant understand why he would keep me around and be all sweet with me knowing he doesnt want what I want. [I am a pisces]Well now he is doing all theses odd things :1. Holding me in public for excessive amounts of time and he will speak low so only I will hear him[ while holding me] and he always ask if I am truly okay and other things in my life and how I should come by to his practice.2. He keeps telling me personal things about how he wants to settle down but isn't ready and how he gets bored easily.3. He keeps asking me to come over and cuddle with him and tells me he doesn't want to have sex because he wouldn't want to hurt me like that. He also goes out of his way to make sure his roommates behave when I come over.4. After his college football practice he will spend about 20 minutes with me in front of the team hugging me for a long time. Separating from his team to acknowledge me and always looking at me.his actions don't match what he is saying andd it confuses me so much. I really want to know what is going on with this 24 year old guy..is he leading me on? Or is he truly confused with what he wants from me?
 
I think he likes you but doesnt want to be in a boxed in relationship. Aquarians love the catch, the "newness" of a relationship. If I were you, I would not act like your at his disposal. Make him work for you! If he asks you to come over one night..tell him you'd love to but you have plans and maybe you can reschedule. If he says that he just doesnt want a relationship, say that you agree w/him, and that maybe you don't want one as well. This will really make him think! I'm sure he doesnt want anyone else to be with you.. so maybe once he feels you might be pushing away..he will reel you in! Trust me.. I know aquarians! Dated one for 3 years.
 
He's in the phase in his life where he knows he should probably settle down,but he also wants adventure and changes.Aquarius guys are very confusing,enjoy freedom and are not easy to tame.Just let him figure out what he wants to do first,give him his space and he'll come back to talk to you about relationships/etc.You should know that you have needs to,so if you reaalllyy love him,stick by him and wait for his response on going steady.
 
IM ''AQUARIUS'' AND WERE JUST NOT ''RELATIONSHIP'' TYPES IF U WANT UR GUY.. TO BE.. HES MOST LIKELY GONNA GET ANOTHER GIRL.. AND LEAVE U
 
Obviously this guy is treating you like a trophy. I imagine he doesn't look you in the eyes when he's saying these things. He also seems to be taking measures to keep you away from access to other men. Drop this guy like a bad habit.
 
Aquarius are very hard to catch, but once you got them, YOU GOT THEM....but be careful, what they want can change at the drop of a hat. they love to cuddle but only when they want to cuddle. same as wanting you around. they want you around, but only when they want you around. Deep down they long to settle down, but in a sense this is giving up some sort of feeling of pride. Aqua's love their independence and in their mind set, this is the way they are supposed to be...kinda like trying to live up to something. If he holds you close and does all that in front of his friends, then he is starting to care for you, but if you fall at his feet he will lose interest. as far as not having sex because he is afraid he will hurt you? aquas pride themselves in being great in bed and think that causes most to fall in love with them. that is his reasoning behind no sex. he is trying to figure out just how much he does feel for you and if you are "worthy". good luck with this. they are great guys....
 
Aquarius men like to analyze a situation over before making a commitment or getting into a relationship with the woman that they love. He likes you very much. Aquarius men are very confusing, like their freedom and alone time to be by themselves and they are very hard to figure out. Give him time to figure out what he likes and he will let you know.
 
When aquarius males are uninformed and emotionally immature, they can be dangerous to the female psyche. He knows what he wants - his cake and to eat it too. The benefit of having a cute girl hanging on his arm - when he wants.He'll have you turning yourself into gordian knots trying to figure out his self-centered motivations - then once you think you've got his Airy Fairyness figured out, the cheating follows. His actions don't match his words - they never will. He's too busy being a legend in his own mind. He's not into you - beyond being a reflection of his glory - only into himself. For aquarius - the water the water bearer pours flows into a pool which they lean over to gaze upon the glory that is them. They're narcissists - run like the hounds of hell are after you!!!
 
Well he definately likes you for that's for sure. My guy is just like this... his actions are speaking louder than his words. He may like you very much, but at the same time he's not ready to be commited just yet. But just give him time then he'll come around. But fyi... it's gonna be a LONG time. Aquas are terrified of commitment.To you, the way he's acting is how normal bf/gf act, but to him the whole title of bf/gf is SO much more. It's almost like marriage to him (hahaha imagine how scared he'll be of marriage then). But dont worry about it and enjoy going with the flow and becoming friends first. They prefer being friends first before falling in love. And if you think about it, it's probably the best way to go.Just dont pressure him into being in a relationship otherwise it's just gonna make him run and be even more scared about being with u cause he'll prob feel ur trying to "trap" him or something. Just go with it and dont push too much. He'll be with you when he's ready. And if u like him so much and think that he may be worth it, then wait. Good luck!!
 
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