apparently im to nice... someone help :s ?

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ok... basically I'm 16 years old and im one of the more larger kids in my school( muscle wise, not fat :D) So when they come up to me to talk, they initially think that im going to be horrible and mean... but im not :) lol... they end up leaving with a very good impression that im a good boii and things like that :)..... ok... anyway, i woz walking one day with a girl who i like, on our home, and i realised that the atmosphere wasnt correct, she seemed a bit like she didnt really care bout me. but i dint say anything and we carried on walking. Out of the blue she goes,.... your to nice, its annoying??/ To be honest No one has eva sed that to me, every1 pretty much likes wen im nice. Coming to think about it, im not that nice to be honest???but i realise i need to mke a sligt chang, Not a horrible mean one.... but just something to show im not that nice....(i fink that makes sense) so yh.... how can i change slowly. Iike gimme a couple of things i can do to show im not that nice (:|... i dunno if this all makes sense to be honest... soz for the spelling mistakes and grammar.. im in fifth period, and its nearly then end of the lesson :|....i wz confused, so i thought i would ask yahoo :D:D:D LOOL )
 
There are too many "not nice" people in the world for one one of the few nice ones to change. If you're friend finds it annoying, that's her problem. Maybe she has a thing about bad boys? I think that there is a phase ""Treat 'em mean 'an keep 'em keen." But to me those types of boys (or girls,) are just arrogant little s***s.

She may think that people will take advantage of you because you're so nice and affable.

If you do a lot of favours for others cut down on them, but do it nicely, that way people will still see you as a nice person but won't take advantage of you.

Don't worry about it. Just be yourself.

I hope that makes sense!
 
if a girl dosen't like who you really are then theres no point changing. Now, i know it's not all about the girl but if you can't naturally be mean or even slightly mean there's no point trying
 
Just be urself dude. If nice is who u are and y would u want to change wut u r. If the beeoch doesnt like it then tell her to go blow sum1 else. If u catch my drift.
 
I can understand what you mean, I'm very similar. Eventually people will take your kindness for granted, I have had it happen.

That's when you show your other side, let 'em know you don't take no guff and you won't put up with anyone assuming you're a weakling because you're nice.

But honestly, you shouldn't have to change yourself for anyone. Just be yourself, what you're comfortable with. But if you have to show a little backbone, go ahead and do it. This will show that you are kind and strong of personality.

That girl sounds like she likes you, maybe only as a friend, maybe even a little bit more than that. Girls on the other hand are attracted to "bad boys," so if you're nice they will be your friend, if you're mean they want to date. At least until they grow up (if ever)

Just be yourself mate, show a little backbone and don't put up with anyone taking advantage of you because you are kinder than they are.

Cheers
 
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