europeangirl_6
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Ok so I'm 21 and I just met this guy. I have been through alot in my life so it's hard for me to trust people espically guys. After only knowing eachother for about 5 days we had really fallen for eachother.I just felt so comfortable around him (not like me at all) But there are already problems. He drinks on occasion and drifts. I have never drank or smoked and I'm like against it (no offense to anyone) well we have already said I love you to eachother and I was telling him that I didn't want him to drink or drift (cause its dangerous and i really care about him alot and this relationship)and after a while of talking about it he told me he would stop. Well today was his friends bday party and everytime I called him he asked to call me back ( this was all day, the party didn't start till night time) so as the night went on I was getting upset cause the same thing was happening, I text him that he was making me feel unimportant. And that if he couldn't even take a little time for me then maybe we shouldn't be together. So then he text me wow.. Ur gonna act like that. U want to be single then go ahead. Then he called me.. And he said that I want him to talk to me all day and that it was his friends bday and he needed to pat attention to him. I told him that i don't want him to be on the phone 24/7 with me and that this was all day even before his friends bday party. So then he said that I need to stop trying to control him and if wants to drink or drift then he's going to. And told me that he was doing that. I feel like he dosent love me or even care about me or this relationship. I feel so hurt after trusting him and letting him get so close to me (I'll leave that out). He acts like everything else is more important and he is going to do whatever he wants. Idk why it's killing me and hurts so bad. But like I cant even sleep and Idk what to do. I really do want us to be together. But not if this is how I'm gonna be treated. Please help!!!!