Anyone good at decoding people - is my friend playing games with me, or does she

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Beckymarie

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want my husband? I've noticed my new friend has been acting weird with me, ESP since i told her I could not commit to being in her wedding since I will be out of town most of next year.

She showed up to an event, and shunned me in front of all our friends. Said hi to them all, excluding me. My sister noticed and asked me what was wrong with her.

Then later my husband came over to me and said "hey your friend made herself known to me. She sent her daughter over to say "hey can you help me find my mommy?" And then she pointed to her mom, and she waved at me while smiling"

After the event was coming to an end, my friend finally came over and started talking to me, and when my husband walked by us,. he smiled at me and waved, so I waved and smiled back. Then as I turned back towards her, she was smiling, waving and shrugging her shoulders in a cute way, as though she thought he was waving to her. (he has sun glasses on, so she may have thought that)

But then she went on to tell me how she played a trick on my husband.. she said "yeah he looked like he was lost over there, so I sent my daughter to tell him she cant find her mommy" then she laughed.

this confussed me. Why would she tell me that she did this? And is it a good sign that she told me about it... does it mean that it was innocent? My husband felt that it was very weird for her to ignore me all day, and do this to him, but then tell me about it?

any input greatly appriciated :)
 
I think that she is jealous of you and she very well be interested in your husband.I too think it was weird for her to avoid you,it sounds as if your sister and husband are on the same page as far as this goes.Maybe she isn't such a good friend as she tries to portrays to be.Just my thoughts.
 
I think that she is jealous of you and she very well be interested in your husband.I too think it was weird for her to avoid you,it sounds as if your sister and husband are on the same page as far as this goes.Maybe she isn't such a good friend as she tries to portrays to be.Just my thoughts.
 
oH Oh.
look, some women have a way of becoming a TRUE bridezilla when it comes to their wedding. their personnalities change, and they get very demanding,ESP with the pple they usually rely on. these women are obsessive abt the idea of a perfect marriage. if she's the type(which i think she is), then she got really freakin pissed about u ditching on her at her wedding day(although you have a perfectly reasonable excuse-she won't get it that way).for her, you're walking out on her on her most important day. plus, i think she's a bit jealous of what u have: probably a loving husband, a home and all. at this point of her life, she wants ALL that. a secure and comfy place she can call home, built along with her husband.

this is my point of view. and don't forget this one thing:
people are like tea bags. you don't know what's inside unless u put them in hot water.
good luck!!!!
 
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