I have a 4 year old stepson who refuses to listen. He is disrespectful to me thinks he can do whatever he wants. We have tried everything we can think of to get him to behave better. We have tried spankings, time outs, and we have taken away his tv privileges and his toys. He just does not care about any of these things. I am at my wits end and it is hurting my relationship with my husband. Anybody have any ideas?