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My husband filed for divorce Friday but today he was giving off the "I want to sleep with you still vibe". Then he backed off when he thought it was making me uncomfortable. If I slept with him will that hurt his chances in court as far as getting a speedy divorce? He said we can be divorced in 60 days and I am looking for an attorney now to respond to his petition. I wanted marriage counseling so we can deal with issues regarding his parents (who ultimately contributed to the marriage ending). I know that if he wants a divorce he will get it. I am a christian and I do believe married be should be married unless it is abuse or infidelity.
Can a judge order marriage counseling before dissolving a marriage if that judge sees fit? Will it be a big mistake on his part if we slept together? I am not looking to trap him into doing or anything like that I just want to know the ramifications in the actions...Btw we just found out we're pregnant...I'm 9 1/2 wks and we live in TN.
Thank you Ice. I kinda figured that. But I will definitely shoot for a mediator. I really don't think the marriage is over..we just have to address the issue that we are having and the weird part is I think he is afraid that it just might work. He cries a lot over the situation and he keeps his wedding ring in his wallet. I asked can I have it in memory but he told me no he it needs to stay in his wallet. Makes me sad too because we had a really great marriage until we had a falling out and we said some hurtful things. Fighting shouldn't have us to this point.
Can a judge order marriage counseling before dissolving a marriage if that judge sees fit? Will it be a big mistake on his part if we slept together? I am not looking to trap him into doing or anything like that I just want to know the ramifications in the actions...Btw we just found out we're pregnant...I'm 9 1/2 wks and we live in TN.
Thank you Ice. I kinda figured that. But I will definitely shoot for a mediator. I really don't think the marriage is over..we just have to address the issue that we are having and the weird part is I think he is afraid that it just might work. He cries a lot over the situation and he keeps his wedding ring in his wallet. I asked can I have it in memory but he told me no he it needs to stay in his wallet. Makes me sad too because we had a really great marriage until we had a falling out and we said some hurtful things. Fighting shouldn't have us to this point.