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Trevor

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"TREVOR: In the words of the great Andrea Aggasi, image is everything. Most people don't think Spartan Soldier when they think gay. They think mincing poncing poof. I'm not trying to insult you. I'm just saying what is on most people's mind."

Sadly Eguns Chick Blocked Me after I gave my answer so I couldn't respond to your answer:

'They' dont actually think 'mincing poof' - you do because you are inexperienced, obviously not very worldly or well travelled and you haven't met any gay men.

And ye that vocab you used is insulting and I am just under 6'8" and would challenge you to describe yourself as stronger than me in any way and that includes physically and emotionally and intellectually
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ye should read: yes
KIA:
Why do you and theother right wing conservatives always assume you can tell me to "let it go" and yet you spend the whole day and most of the evening saying vile things to women and fems?
No I will not let it go until I am good and ready and it is condescending of you to presume you should tell me NOT to respond to FLash Hearts lobotomised comments.
WISDR:
I am actually just under 6'8" but I can't be bothered to type half inches and when you think of village people and moustaches you are thirty five years out of date and living under a rock.
Sox I live in a Loft with 23 foot ceiling and 8 - 9 ft doors

lol
Flash Heart:

You are an idiot. Gays do not act like women and society does not admire power and men are not pwerful anyway.

You just sound like a swaggering idiot whose ego is probably more fragile than your average girl scout.

Make me a sammich!
Flash Heart:

You are an idiot. Gays do not act like women and society does not admire power and men are not pwerful anyway.

You just sound like a swaggering idiot whose ego is probably more fragile than your average girl scout.

Make me a sammich!
KIA:

Let it go sweetie
WSIDR:
The fact that you are too butch to lighten up means you aren't terribly comfortable in your masculinity my friend hence why women always refer to men like you as having a *fragile ego*
WSIDR:
The fact that you are too butch to lighten up means you aren't terribly comfortable in your masculinity my friend hence why women always refer to men like you as having a *fragile ego*
 
This observation was obviously written by someone who is too ignorant to move beyond negatively stereotyping others. I have met many gay men and no two are alike so how can anyone openly generalize so stupidly. Gay are males and they act like men.
 
Most of stereo types are just that stereo types.

I have lived in predominantly gay communinities from the south end in Boston to San Fran and from what I have seen gay people come in every shape size and degrees of manliness and femininity. The funny thing to me is most of the people I have met that like to categorize what a certain group is like, tend to have the least first hand experience with that group.

But for me the kicker is, gay men often think I am gay. I am 40something, in shape, never been married, polite, well groomed, and I don't spend time kissing up to women. This tells me that everyone uses the stereo types, even those who are the target of those same stereo types.

I have also been asked if was molato (when I have a dark tan), Jewish, English, Polish, Aussie, and god knows what else. People feel more comfortable when they can categorize others.

I am in reality, a hereto Euro-mutt, part Austrian, part Irish, part English, part "Bostonian" (that's what grandma said), and part "unknown". But who knows for sure, and who cares, I don't, I am comfortable just being me, whatever the hell that is.

Somebody make Trevor a sammich.
 
Sounds like we need a filter in the gene pool Trevor. I'll help you install it if you foot the bill. I'm so broke I can't pay attention.
 
I blocked you because you blocked me. What sense does it make to block me from answering your questions but yet you MUST get your 2 points from answering mine. You are pathetic, and a cry baby that thinks everyone is against you for being gay. You like to generalize others and stereotype those who don't have the same views and beliefs of you yet you cant take it. I say if you can't take it then don't dish it, Trevor.
 
It's just a stereotype. When people hear "housewife", they think fat and lazy and shrewish. Yeah, as a housewife it annoys me, so you know what I do? I prove the stereotype wrong.

And there's a basis in reality for it....there are some housewives who are fat, and who are lazy, and who are peevish and unhappy. Just not all of us.

There's also a bit of a basis in reality for the stereotype about gay men. While there are plenty who you'd never know are gay, there are also some who are very feminine. I've met some of each - some that I was very surprised to learn were gay (normally I have fairly good "gaydar" but it wasn't working with these men), and some who made it very clear with their lisping and giggling and making obvious passes at other men. It's an annoying stereotype....but if it doesn't apply to you, then just ignore it and prove it wrong. It's way more productive than getting upset.
 
You just keep getting taller don't you Trev? :-)

I envision leather-clad villiage people dancing with porno staches when I think gay. Which by the way is never. Because I'm a real man. Aaaaaargh!

Trevor...it might also have something to do with a certain video you like to post under the auspices of feminist recruiting in the UK. But anyway, I'll going to work on a modern stereotype to lump all gays into. I don't want to be a bigot AND out of touch. ;-)
 
When I think "gay men" I think of sexy guys that couldn't be any less interested in fucking me.

Took a few years, but I've made my peace with it.

Best part: A fair number of the most built and and stereotypically "macho" looking guys in the gyms are gay.

The whole club kid image of gay still remains for many. Eh. Those people are usually the ones whose only exposure to gay men has been from Will & Grace and Queer eye. Wouldn't take what they say too seriously ^5
 
Whassiname??? You never seen Blackadder?

Be insulted or don't. It's of no concern to me, but the simple truth of the matter is that people (in general) do not look at gay men as real men. I have no issue with you or that you are homosexual. I am only telling you the way it is. We live in a culture that respects power. A man who has the mannerisms of a woman is not seen as powerful. We look up to macho guys on the movie screen and big strong athletes on the field. Again I'm not saying that it's the way thing should be, but it is the way things are. That's why I posted that if gay men came across as tough, they wouldn't get any crap.

BTW In Brokeback Heath's character said "I ain't queer" I forget exactly when, but even he made the point that while he like dudes, he was still a tough man.

As for you looking to try it on mate, that's the kind of attitude that is going to gain respect for your people. Unfortunate that it comes to that though.

EDIT: Please show me an example of where homosexual men are seen as the model of what people want or think a man should be. San Francisco and W. Hollywood don't count. They are isolated cases.
 
I agree that most people don't think that, at least, not most people that actually KNOW gay men. And the people that DO think that, probably know gay men, but have no idea because they don't fit their preconceived notions.
 
Hi Trevor, I do not know you or your situation, but I just do not understand some people in here. What does one get out of being mean or insulting? What the big deal about being gay? Just because someone is gay, it should not matter to you unless your are involved with this person. Some people should stop minding other people's concerns and stop pointing the finger, as they say, "Let those who bear no sin, cast the first stone!!" =P
 
And I gave you the lone TU (as of now) in your response there Trevor.

And we all know that this forum is about opinions, facts, facts stated as opinions to feign smartness and opinions stated as facts to hide bigotry.

Let it go.

How does saying 'vile' things about Feminism relate to telling you to 'let it go'. No, I wasn't trying to be condescending, I apologize. I'd have the said the same thing if anyone else had put this question up.
 
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