I had a boyfriend of 8 months and we brokeup because we always fought. It was over stupid things and I would usually get annoyed and he would just keep going at it. I took it over the top and attutide came along. I take his jokes seriously but I want to learn how to keep myself calm and have a better sense of humor to not take things so seriously. I try to think before I act but its hard and I want to improve our relationship. help please!