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Jimmag J
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Sorry musn't have worded it correctly before. I am the guy and my girlfriend can't have sex with me as it hurts her to much. We have pretty much said screw it and i just commited myself to it and i have herpes. I never get outbreaks and im never in pain from it.
My girlfriend has been on meds for it every day since she got it but everytime we have sex it triggers an outbreak. Everytime she is having an outbreak we cant have sex for like a week maybe even 2....
We are trying to work out alternate ways to have sex apart from oral/hands and so on so forth... She broke it down to me last night and said it pretty much is going to stop her having sex for the rest of her life if it causes an outbreak everytime. and puts her in pain for a week. She eats healthy and isnt stressed we have tried everything that everyone generally tries we were wondering if anal sex would trigger outbreaks wheather or not other sufferers use this as a form of alternate sex as its taking a massive drain on our relationship. Since im a my peak and before her i had sex 3-4 times a day everyday.
She said shes noticed i've lost alot of motivation i dont care about things and im really cranky after not having sex for 2weeks...
My girlfriend has been on meds for it every day since she got it but everytime we have sex it triggers an outbreak. Everytime she is having an outbreak we cant have sex for like a week maybe even 2....
We are trying to work out alternate ways to have sex apart from oral/hands and so on so forth... She broke it down to me last night and said it pretty much is going to stop her having sex for the rest of her life if it causes an outbreak everytime. and puts her in pain for a week. She eats healthy and isnt stressed we have tried everything that everyone generally tries we were wondering if anal sex would trigger outbreaks wheather or not other sufferers use this as a form of alternate sex as its taking a massive drain on our relationship. Since im a my peak and before her i had sex 3-4 times a day everyday.
She said shes noticed i've lost alot of motivation i dont care about things and im really cranky after not having sex for 2weeks...