An intimate question as to who could be the biological father of my child?

anonymous

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Obviously this is impossible to know 100% until a test is taken after birth, but after finding out exactly how far along I am yesterday via ultrasound it tells me that I am 15 weeks and 4 days as of today. This is something I have not shared with anyone else because I want to keep it a secret unless it has to come out later on.

In the month of September, I was seeing a particular man the entire month. Pregnancy was definitely not planned, but it happened. I didn't find out until November 4th that I was pregnant. Judging by how far along I am proven by ultrasound, baby was conceived on roughly September 14th. That is a Tuesday. Saturday, Sunday, and Monday right before that day I spent the weekend staying with him. On September 16th, I went out for some drinks with a male friend & coworker of mine. We came back to the apartment to hang out with him and his roommate and I ended up passing out on the couch later on because I was so exhausted. I woke up the next morning completely naked and in bed next to him. I don't want to jump to conclusions and claim that I was raped, but I definitely wouldn't have slept with him intentionally. I'm almost certain I was unconscious throughout the entire situation. And when asked upon what happened the next morning, he didn't seem to have much to say other than the obvious. It was extremely awkward. Let me also throw out there that I have zero physical attraction towards him whatsoever. Sober or intoxicated, I seriously don't think that I would have gone through with this.

Anyway, the only reason i'm going about explaining what happened between the coworker and myself is because I didn't want people to think I was some kind of nasty girl that sleeps around with men all the time. I was very much into the man I was seeing throughout September, and I did not intentionally allow anything to happen on the night of the 16th.

Do you think that the father is more than likely the man I was seeing that entire month or the coworker that seems to have taken advantage of me?

Please, no inappropriate or rude answers that don't provide any kind of help whatsoever. Thanks.
Four candidates? What are you talking about? I was seeing one man for the entire month and another man had slept with me for one day of that month. That's only two.
 
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