Ladypipeliner
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...women he does business with? Yesterday my husband says, "guess who I had dinner with"? He told me her name, and told me how refreshing it was to sit down and talk to someone that didn't want sell or want anything else from him. I asked him about our agreement about not dining out with the opposite sex unless there was someone else with us. She called and asked him to eat with her, and she knows he's married. She's also engaged. She doesn't like to dine alone. He blew up on me and told me he wasn't going to discuss this anymore with me. I told him he always says that when he has screwed up. I hung up on him. He called me back and tells me, You think this was a f***up? Tell me if you think this was a f*** up and I'll show you what a f***up is. I considered that to be a threat. He goes out to eat with women on time, supposedly women he has to do business with. Am I over reacting or what? He also calls these women and visits with them on the phone. He is my husband and he acts like I shouldn't say anything, just pat him on the back for what he is doing. As long as I keep my mouth shut and kiss his ass everything is fine between us, but the minute I back him down he starts threatening me with divorce. Any ideas on how to deal with situation?
I have met his co worker, and she is a nice lady. How immature is it to hang up on someone that is ranting and raving and making threats? The fact that I have asked him not to go out and eat with other women should be sufficient reason for him not to. She is a former coworker and its very strange that they "just happened to be in the same area, at the same time". My husband was a womanizer so I feel like he hasn't any right placing himself in a position to be tempted. He is pushing me away from him by disregarding my feelings in this situation. And also, they call each other all the time and talk for a long time.
Julia, my good looking husband is a arrogant, self centered, selfish jerk. And if things don't go his way I have hell to pay. And by the way, I make as much money as he does and work in the same field of business, work around men all the time, but I don't flirt with them and I don't go out to eat with them. My marriage is what comes first with me. I expect the same consideration from him that I give to him.
I have met his co worker, and she is a nice lady. How immature is it to hang up on someone that is ranting and raving and making threats? The fact that I have asked him not to go out and eat with other women should be sufficient reason for him not to. She is a former coworker and its very strange that they "just happened to be in the same area, at the same time". My husband was a womanizer so I feel like he hasn't any right placing himself in a position to be tempted. He is pushing me away from him by disregarding my feelings in this situation. And also, they call each other all the time and talk for a long time.
Julia, my good looking husband is a arrogant, self centered, selfish jerk. And if things don't go his way I have hell to pay. And by the way, I make as much money as he does and work in the same field of business, work around men all the time, but I don't flirt with them and I don't go out to eat with them. My marriage is what comes first with me. I expect the same consideration from him that I give to him.