Am I weird b'cuz I like hanging out with older people instead of kids my age ?

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Im 17 years old....just turned.And for the past 3 years I've notice that I loveeee being friends/hanging with people older than me ( late twenties,middle aged,elders ) I love the stories they tell from experience,I love that our conversations never be about stupid or immature things ( they are meaningful ) I love how they tell how mannerable I am,how unique I am and how.....just all the good things.They treat me like an adult.And I feel like one.I feel very mature with them.But with kids my own age....its so weird.I don't like talking to them.They never talk about imortant things,all they care about is parties,hating school,having sex and who's going with who.And I don't really have an inserest in any of that stuff.And I notice I talk very ( mature ) and some of my peers asks if I wa held bakc some grades.Everone thinks I'm in like my twenties because I wear soophisticated clothes.Office/suits....and I'm just wondering is that weird ??? What do you think....


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No that's not weird at all. I'm exactly like that, I'm 17 but most of my friends are in there twenties i have younger friends but i prefer not to hang out with them on daily basis because of the fact I'm so much more mature than them. Your choice in the age of your friends is entirely up to you & your friends so don't let anyone tell you different.I've been hanging out with older people since i was 14 & nobody looks at me differently. Being more mature than others around you especially at our age just makes you an individual and unique that's how i look at it.
 
I'm exactly like that too, I'm seventeen as well. I've always gotten along with older people. I love talking to my step dad, and my grandmother... and my boyfriend's dad. They have so many stories to tell, and I love listening! Plus, they're the best people to get advice from. I have to admit, most teenagers our age... are immature to say the least. Though there are some that aren't, I've found a few. Most of the people I talk to though are in their twenties, it's always been like that. Even whenever I was 14ish, I would get along more with 18~19year olds. Heck, my boyfriend's 21, so... yeah. I don't dress nearly as sophisticated as you though. I don't think there's anything wrong with you and I liking older people more. Girls are supposed to mature faster apparently, and this kind of adds to that point.
 
I think you are doing what your heart and mond desries the most, and I think thats a good thing. You dont find people like you every day, and I totslly respect you and your actions. The people you hand around with are good people, and they probably like to talk to you too. You are very unique and a gift from God that no one else can replace. But the truth is you should not think all people your age are immature, because a majority of them probably like talking about the same topics you like. So you can never stereotype a group of people without even knowing them. Dont be ashamed of what you do, people should be ashamed of themselves if they look down on you. stand your ground, God knows whats good for you. And you're doind what you feel is best, and God knows he loves and appreciates what youre doing :)
 
Well, your simply more mature than others, you can say that, and there's nothing wrong with that. And you aint Weird!! lol, haha.

Peace!!!
 
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