what if u were with someone for 7 yrs and he always gets his nut and u never do because he never takes the time out to satisfy u only his self.isn't that selfish?
I don't see how you can be with someone who is selfish.
It should be pleasing for both of you, not just him. Maybe he does not know you aren't satisfied. Try talking to him but not accusing him or arguing with him. Sometimes they are clueless.
It takes a lot for me to be satisfied. I don't like it short and quick. I tell him to go long and he knows what I mean.
