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I am a 32-year-old woman who recently got out of an unhealthy decade-long relationship. I was looking to enjoy being single for a while but this guy I met thru work asked me out and since I like sex a lot, I started having sex with him after emailing and talking for about a month. He tried to make plans to go out on a date after the first time we slept together but every time he'd show up at my place we would just ditch the plans and end up spending the entire evening in my bed. He's really good in bed and loves to cuddle afterwards and thinks up of pet names for me, and constantly tells me how gorgeous and beautiful I am - something that was sorely lacking in my previous relationship.
At one point he asked me if I would care to accompany him to a party to meet some of his friends, but I explained that I liked what we have going right now - just enjoying each other without worrying about social ties. He seemed pretty happy about that.
So now it seems that this thing we have is going to be a purely sexual/open (as long as we use condoms with other people) relationship.
Is there something wrong with me because I am a woman who is perfectly happy with this arrangement? Do you think I need psychiatric help?
My friends think I'm being used but I really don't care to be in a "full" relationship, at least not anytime soon. I love/need loads of personal space and alone time.
At one point he asked me if I would care to accompany him to a party to meet some of his friends, but I explained that I liked what we have going right now - just enjoying each other without worrying about social ties. He seemed pretty happy about that.
So now it seems that this thing we have is going to be a purely sexual/open (as long as we use condoms with other people) relationship.
Is there something wrong with me because I am a woman who is perfectly happy with this arrangement? Do you think I need psychiatric help?
My friends think I'm being used but I really don't care to be in a "full" relationship, at least not anytime soon. I love/need loads of personal space and alone time.