People have always told me i am a genuinely nice person. Because i always go out of my way to make people happy. I buy people nice gifts for their birthdays that are hard to find, treat them meals and do favors for them. Even for people i don't know that well.
Example: My last few crushes i willingly helped them get with the guys they like. I felt stupid in my head for doing that but i felt content that i helped them get with these guys.
Lately, I have been helping these 2 people i really don't know all that well. They were from outside of town and they looked like they were struggling. So i gladly helped them treated them some meals, took them around and asked me to even helped them find some properties they were considering to buy.
But in the last week, they had a dilemma because their lease agreement was misinterpreted and now they have rented out a property weeks after they have left. So they asked me to help find some people to take over the rent. Over the last 3 days, i helped find people but still struggling to find people to take the rent. Also they asked me to help find some professional cleaners to clean up the place. My friend said i was being stupid for helping randoms. I didn't mind too much.. didn't seem to bother me but these people on Christmas(today) kept stressing how they wanted to this place to be rented out. i kind of clicked then and just said screw it.. why am i helping people so much that i haven't known for that long.
I hate people taking advantage of my nice gestures..
Am i being selfish for thinking like this?
I will note these people were 2 girls but i had in no way any ulterior motives.. and would of gladly helped a guy who was in the same situation.
Example: My last few crushes i willingly helped them get with the guys they like. I felt stupid in my head for doing that but i felt content that i helped them get with these guys.
Lately, I have been helping these 2 people i really don't know all that well. They were from outside of town and they looked like they were struggling. So i gladly helped them treated them some meals, took them around and asked me to even helped them find some properties they were considering to buy.
But in the last week, they had a dilemma because their lease agreement was misinterpreted and now they have rented out a property weeks after they have left. So they asked me to help find some people to take over the rent. Over the last 3 days, i helped find people but still struggling to find people to take the rent. Also they asked me to help find some professional cleaners to clean up the place. My friend said i was being stupid for helping randoms. I didn't mind too much.. didn't seem to bother me but these people on Christmas(today) kept stressing how they wanted to this place to be rented out. i kind of clicked then and just said screw it.. why am i helping people so much that i haven't known for that long.
I hate people taking advantage of my nice gestures..
Am i being selfish for thinking like this?
I will note these people were 2 girls but i had in no way any ulterior motives.. and would of gladly helped a guy who was in the same situation.